Lead Where You Are

Have you ever been driving to a place you’ve been to dozens of times, only to look around and think, “I have no idea where I am?” Or is that just me? Anyone who has ever traveled with me will tell you I’m a terrible navigator. We might both be in trouble if you rely on me to guide you. I will get caught up in our conversation and forget to tell you where to turn. I think that’s why someone invented GPS.

GPS is a useful tool. It knows the fastest route, warns you of off-road hazards, and even helps you avoid speed traps. But while it’s great at providing directions, it’s not the leader of your trip. You are. The GPS can suggest a path, but it doesn’t decide when to stop, detour, or choose a different destination. It’s there to assist, but the leadership of the journey remains in your hands.

I recently watched an Instagram Reel about wolves and how they travel. Contrary to what you might expect, the strongest wolf, the Alpha, often leads from the rear. The Alpha positions themselves at the back, ensuring no one is left behind, guiding the pack while allowing others to set the pace. It’s a unique kind of leadership. It’s rooted in trust and an understanding that the journey isn’t just about the destination but ensuring everyone gets there together.

In life, business, and within the NHLA, this approach can be so powerful. Being a leader doesn’t always mean being at the front, dictating every move. It’s about knowing when to step back, observe, and trust in the abilities of those around you. It’s about guiding the process, providing support, and stepping in when necessary, all while allowing room for others to grow and contribute.

Just like the wolf, whose job is to ensure the safety and success of the pack by leading from behind, NHLA members also have to recognize when it’s time to take the reins and when it’s time to step back and trust the journey. Your GPS may show you the way, but your decisions, instincts, and leadership will ultimately determine where you end up.

So, whether navigating your personal life, steering your business, or contributing to the NHLA community, remember that authentic leadership isn’t about always being at the front. It’s about guiding with purpose, leading with confidence from wherever you are, and ensuring that the path you choose aligns with your goals and values. Embrace the role of the Alpha wolf and lead your journey with the understanding that while tools can guide you, real leadership lies in how you choose to use them.

John Hester
Chief Development Officer